{"id":3116,"date":"2026-08-24T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-08-24T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/?p=3116"},"modified":"2026-05-04T13:24:18","modified_gmt":"2026-05-04T13:24:18","slug":"how-to-build-unbreakable-teens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/?p=3116","title":{"rendered":"How to Build Unbreakable Teens"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ecclesiastes 4:8-12 “There is one alone, and there is not a second; yea, he hath neither child nor brother: yet is there no end of all his labour; neither is his eye satisfied with riches; neither saith he, For whom do I labour, and bereave my soul of good? This is also vanity, yea, it is a sore travail. Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”<\/strong>

I am a bus teen. I spent a few years in a youth group, I spent a few years in Bible College, and I\u2019ve been working in the ministry for only a short while. Through those short years, I\u2019ve seen every kind of teenager imaginable! I\u2019ve seen bus teens, church teens, teens that walk in, teens that walk out, teens that get it, teens that don\u2019t get it, careful teens, rowdy teens, teens bigger than me, teens smaller than average, and on I could go. What\u2019s the point? I\u2019ve seen every single type of teen be broken, and so have you. My job as a YP is to build up teenagers as much as they\u2019ll let me. I have a few hours of their time, and I have a small part of their overall lives. This means that I need to have a pointed goal for each young man and woman in the youth group. Whether it\u2019s a bus teen or a core kid, my prayer is that these young Christians will be like Christ. Ecclesiastes 4:8-12 tells us about a threefold cord that is not quickly broken. Here are three things you need as a parent, youth pastor, or youth worker to build unbreakable teenagers:

1. Unbreakable Teens come from Present Bodies
<\/strong>You can\u2019t have unbreakable teens without teenagers. Look around you at what God has put in front of you in the ministry. It doesn\u2019t matter if you don\u2019t like them, and it doesn\u2019t matter that they\u2019re not doing what you want them to do. What God has given you is what you have. I wonder how many teenagers got overlooked because their youth pastor was looking for someone else on the horizon? If you want to build unbreakable teenagers and you don\u2019t have any plain old teenagers, go out and pick up some teens for church. Teenagers are the same as kids or adults. If you offer to pick them up and provide a promotion every now and then, then you will have teenagers at your church.

2. Unbreakable Teens have Parental Bonds
<\/strong>I, and many others, have been convinced in our lifetime that every teen has a bad relationship with their parents. This isn\u2019t true! Not every teen will have a perfect relationship with mom or dad, but many times, teens can have a good relationship with their parents. Don\u2019t forget the first commandment with promise: Exodus 20:12 \u201cHonour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.\u201d Teenagers need a right and proper relationship with mom and dad in order to be right with God.
I don\u2019t want to be dad. Not for a single teen in my youth department. I want as best I can to point teens to how they can honor their mother and father even when they don\u2019t have them. Every teenager that I consider unbreakable has some support from home. I\u2019m not saying it doesn\u2019t happen, but most of the time, they need that relationship of a parental figure to help make them unbreakable.

3. Unbreakable Teens are Practical Believers
<\/strong>Teens who have their own relationship with God can become unbreakable. The threefold cord until the day they marry is made up of them, their parents, and Jesus Christ. Daily Bible reading and prayer, telling others about Jesus, giving offerings, and being faithful to church are the most important things a teen can do to keep themselves from being fragile.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Jesse McCammon | Pastor
Flora Clavary Baptist Church | Flora, Illinois
https:\/\/www.floracalvarybaptist.com\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ecclesiastes 4:8-12 “There is one alone, and there is not a second; yea, he hath neither child nor brother: yet is there no end of all his labour; neither is his eye satisfied with riches; neither saith he, For whom do I labour, and bereave my soul of good? This is also vanity, yea, it […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":5611,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"subtitle":"","format":"standard","video":"","gallery":"","source_name":"","source_url":"","via_name":"","via_url":"","override_template":"0","override":[{"template":"1","single_blog_custom":"","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"0","layout":"no-sidebar-narrow","sidebar":"default-sidebar","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"float","share_float_style":"share-monocrhome","show_share_counter":"1","show_view_counter":"1","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"0","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","show_zoom_button":"0","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_prev_next_post":"1","show_popup_post":"1","number_popup_post":"1","show_author_box":"1","show_post_related":"0","show_inline_post_related":"0"}],"override_image_size":"0","image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"crop-500","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post":"0","trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trending","sponsored_post":"0","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsored by","sponsored_post_name":"","sponsored_post_url":"","sponsored_post_logo_enable":"0","sponsored_post_logo":"","sponsored_post_desc":"","disable_ad":"0"},"jnews_primary_category":{"id":"","hide":""},"jnews_food_recipe":[],"enable_food_recipe":"0","food_recipe_title":"","food_recipe_description":"","food_recipe_serve":"","food_recipe_time":"","food_recipe_prep":"","food_recipe_level":"","food_recipe_keywords":"","food_recipe_category":"","food_recipe_cuisine":"","food_recipe_yield":"","food_recipe_calories":"","enable_print_recipe":"0","ingredient":[{"item":""}],"instruction":"","jnews_social_meta":{"fb_title":"","fb_description":"","fb_image":"","twitter_title":"","twitter_description":"","twitter_image":""},"jnews_override_counter":{"override_view_counter":"0","view_counter_number":"0","override_share_counter":"0","share_counter_number":"0","override_like_counter":"0","like_counter_number":"0","override_dislike_counter":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"jnews_podcast_option":{"enable_podcast":"0","podcast_duration":"","upload":""},"jnews_podcast_series":null,"footnotes":""},"categories":[23,24],"tags":[702,467,705,704,213,703,317],"jnews-series":[],"class_list":["post-3116","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-4-the-yp","category-yp-wife","tag-build","tag-jesse-mccammon","tag-practical","tag-present","tag-teens","tag-unbreakable","tag-yplife"],"featured_image_src":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/1447E7AB-D182-4BC9-B850-31A2737BB46E-1024x1024.png","blog_images":{"medium":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/1447E7AB-D182-4BC9-B850-31A2737BB46E-300x300.png","large":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/1447E7AB-D182-4BC9-B850-31A2737BB46E-1024x1024.png"},"ams_acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3116","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3116"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3116\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5582,"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3116\/revisions\/5582"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5611"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3116"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3116"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3116"},{"taxonomy":"jnews-series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yplife.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fjnews-series&post=3116"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}